Kso, I just turned 18(august 14th), and on my birthday-- MY EX WANTED TO BE FRIENDS!!

K, so on this site, there is a shoutbox, and forums, then PM. So on the Shoutbox, someone says happybirthday... I thank them. Jesse (the ex) says Happy Birthday. He hasn't talked to me since May 11th.SOOO!! I said, *blinks*Thanks...

He sends me message:

Title: Civility

Jesse:
Just because I despise you doesn't mean I can't be civil on your birthday

Amanda:
to be honest when cam back i figured we would never speak again since you blocked me on everything else... but thanks for the birthday wish

Jesse:
I didn't plan on it. But I promised Epic that on here I will not be rude or ignorant to people who are on the site. Best place to start if you ask me.

**NOTE** Epic runs the site

Amanda:
best place to start what?? you've been ignoring me for months and suddenly start talking to mE?

Jesse:
And your welcome

Jesse:
It's your birthday. Well was. I am not gonna be an ignorant stereotypical Wop and not wish you a happy birthday. And I woulda said hi last month when I walked past you, but you suddenly didn't look happy to see me so I kept on going.

Amanda:
I didnt look happy cuz you were glaring holes through my head as you walked towards me. I was surprised you were there let alone how fast you walked away. And I am pretty sure that in our last convo you said "and yeah i saw you on friday and didn't want to say hi" which i still have no idea where you saw me since i was doing some things that night

Jesse:
That was the wrong person that friday night, and how was I glaring when I had the cockiest smirk on my face that I have ever had in my entire life.

BTW, congrats on graduating.

Amanda:

cockiest grin?? I am super confused... and really confused as to why you are even talking to me if you despise me.. being civil is one thing... but this is getting friendly so watch it

Jesse:
Just keeping a promise to a friend. No not you. I promised epic I would treat everyone fairly on here. I am just being polite now. Trust me amanda. I want you here as much you want me talking to you. Thing is, we both got to deal with it.

I figure that the sooner we get civility out of the way, the sooner we can actually discuss things on the forum without getting personal.

Leopards don't change thier spots.

Amanda:
don't use cliches that dont fit the convo.

I never said i didnt want you talking to me. It confuses me

And I guess you havent read my posts.
#1 clearly said i would imagine you not talking to me
#2 in my "just wondering" also said me and you would probably never RP again... therefore removing the need.... I didnt come back because of you... or to do this. I came back because I miss being able to RP

Jesse:
Your own fault if you dont know my meaning. And I don;t care why your here. Fact is, your here, and so am I.

Trust me Amanda. I am not the person you know. Your not the person I know anymore either.

For both of us though, the saying holds true.

Amanda:
And who's fault is that? You completely bypassed half of what I said

You know what though? I dont want to waste my time arguing anymore. You know my number if there is anything else worth saying. I never stopped you from calling me. And yet I wasn't worth your time. So. I am logging off now. I have stuff to do tomorrow morning. Well... later this morning I guess.

Jesse:
I needed my time to cool off. May be a hollow gesture now, but I can be nice. No more arguing I agree.

THEN he posts in the Shoutbox Something about being drunk. At 10pm... :S

Jesse:
Ok amanda. Here is the thing. I am willing to put the past behind us and srart over to be friends. Honestly, I know I was an immature jerk to not talk to you, but as I said I have changed. I have grown up. I am willing to give being friends a chance if you are.

Amanda:
Uhm #1 you were drunk when you wrote that
#2 I have a great life and a caring boyfriend and friends who really looked after me when I needed it

#3 Why should I all of a sudden forgive you for being a stuckup arrogant @$$Hole just cuz you said so?? You dumped me in january. WE NEVER GOT BACK TOGETHER. and yet, you stormed out of my life because I was not going to do it all over again and be hurt and subjected to lies.

PLUS why would you keep telling me that a certain someone *J* Meant nothing to you, but ever since you left me, again, you keep telling her you care about her, and along those lines.

Jesse:
ok I am gonna clear this up once and for all. IT WAS YOU THAT SAID WE WERE BACK TOGETHER. YOU SAID THAT YOU WERE TELLING PEOPLE THAT I WAS YOUR BOYRFRIEND.

You know what amanda. Fuck it. I tried. I actually honestly wanted to try and make amends and be friends. But fuck you.

I Can deal with everything that happened. I can deal with everything that was said. But this is horse shit. I tried amanda. You KNEW it takes me time to calm down. I took my time and calmed down properly.

Guess you haven't changed at all.

Amanda:
Don't try to pin this on me ok? I dont know how you expect me to just say, ok we are friends... when you are the one who hasnt talked to me in months. I am over what happened... I am not dwelling on any of it. Like i told you before you ignored me... I didn't want to be with you anymore. I have changed. We both have although some traits seem to have stayed... for both of us. After sending me a message titled "Civility" you can't even use it. It took you MONTHS to even talk to me, after many chances of me swallowing my pride and talking to you. Only to be screamed and yelled at and called out for BS accusations. You and I seem to have very different stories of what happened between January and May. Let alone, You think that just because you say let's be friends, after 4 months of not talking, I should just accept that without thinking... We need to work this out before we can. And if you cannot do that, we cant move on to a friendship from being Ex's.

NO ANSWER FOR THREE DAYS!! Then he writes on the shoutbox that certain circumstances in his life are requiring him to leave the site, and even the owner of the site tells him to grow up.

Amanda:
When are you going to learn? People Don't like it when you throw yourself into pity. Especially over something so trivial that you started. I have not done anything wrong here, except explain to you that you can't expect me to just get over everything I have to be friends with you. You needed time, and you can't even EARN anything to be trusted on. You expect everyone to give you the world, and to shower you with "poor jesse" all the time. It doesn't work like that. You never showed me you wanted to WORK ON the relationship, and as soon as I confirmed we would not be together, mostly because of that, you bolted and ignored every attempt at friendship. After that, you now want to be friends, but can't even prove that, because as soon as I say i have stuff to get over, once again you bolt.

Not Very Trustworthy, and You Don't Understand that I OWE YOU NOTHING! You Have Yet To Show Me You Want Anything To Do With Me, and This just pushes it farther away.

P.S. While I am On The Topic Of OWING-- Where is my $700??